This is reported by Glavpost.
1. Avoiding the topic of loss
Try not to sidestep conversations about the loss. Ignoring this reality may lead the person to feel that their pain is being underestimated or not taken seriously. It's better to express your support with simple phrases, such as: "I'm here if you need to talk."
2. Attempts to downplay feelings
Statements like "Everything passes," "You're strong, you'll get through this," or "Others have it worse" can come across as indifferent. It's more effective to acknowledge the person's feelings: "I see how hard this is for you, and I'm here to listen."
3. Giving advice and trying to "fix" the situation
A grieving person does not expect solutions or advice from you. Phrases like "You should be grateful for what you had" or "It's time to move on" may seem intrusive. Instead, offer your support: "Let me know how I can help you right now."
4. Comparing with someone else's experience
It's not helpful to share your own or someone else's loss in an attempt to show that "everyone goes through similar things." Each loss is unique, and such stories can make a person feel isolated.
5. Being intrusive in communication
If someone prefers silence or distance, it’s important to respect that. Intrusive attempts to "engage" them can only increase stress. Just being present lets the grieving person know they can reach out to you when needed.
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